This is a high quality item - like comparing a Makita to anything else like Craftsmen. It is pliable but but flexible - you'll need a special cushion to truly enjoy it. It does not have a separate remote control - 3 buttons are located on the underside of the base. Note power button is multi-function - it controls one of 3 motors. That means 120 COMBINATIONS to explore! Set combo and enjoy. It is very washable - but a condom fits securely over head and rear to assist lubrication and cleanup. I could envision many couples-use scenarios :)

Buttons easy to use
message good

It vibrates everywhere you want it too

Great design. The functionality of the vibrations feels strong. The remote makes it super easy to use. The light is a great added touch with multiple colors.

I like the motions and the crazy vibrations. It does everything it's supposed to do, and does it well.
My problem is that it's just a bit large for my tight ash. It's for me and the wife. I do recommend it and I recommend the seller!